This is one of those things I don’t really know much about. I haven’t had much experience with relationships, and my experience with Tinder is poor. Perhaps it’s because of my lack of experience that I am not willing to give it my all, am I afraid of messing up, that I won’t be good enough? I’m working on my self-esteem, and for the past several months I’ve been making myself swipe more, and today I made a profile on another platform that isn’t as focused on one night stands and the hookup culture presented around me in todays society.
With every match I am sending the first message if they have not sent one before me. I am not entirely sure what to say. I do not want to just shower someone I don’t know with affections as it may taint their perspective, I don’t want something just for the sake of having it, but a relationship that will help both of us grow into more compassionate, caring, kind people. I am working on putting myself out there more. The failures will only be lessons to further my success, to better myself and others. The goal of finding a partner; a life mate. Until then The sun comes up again tomorrow, and we shall try again then too.